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Who Are The Controlling People?

Although often charming, efficient, and highly organized, controlling personalities can be a real pain in the butt to be around.
We’ve all encountered them, and maybe (yikes) we are one ourselves — or at least have a few controlling behaviors.
Either way, it’s good to know the signs and symptoms so you can learn to deal with a controlling person or begin to acknowledge and change the behaviors in yourself. (More often that not, control freaks don’t see the behavior in themselves and how it impacts others.)
If you think you may know a control freak — or if you feel a little uneasy thinking you might be one, here are some additional signs and symptoms to watch out for.
  • become angry or anxious when someone or something makes them late, when things don’t start on time, or go according to plan;
  • have difficulty admitting mistakes, being wrong or misinformed about a situation, or acknowledging that they have changed their minds;
  • resist depending on other people or accepting help from them;
  • take charge and give orders without being asked when a situation is disorderly or confused;
  • must be right (even when they aren’t) in every situation and have the final word;
  • must have things done their way because they “know best;”
  • over-plan and control the simplest activities or occasions;
  • often use emotional manipulation (guilt, pouting) to get their way;
  • have many personal routines or rituals that must be followed;
  • frequently offer unsolicited advice and criticisms and get insulted when others don’t take the advice;
  • spend a lot of time organizing and managing their personal environment and insisting those around them do the same;
  • drive aggressively (or too carefully), and tell others how to drive, where to park, what direction to take, etc.;
  • want to be in charge of the remote when watching television;
  • have perfectionist tendencies and tend to be their own worst critic.
  • tend to micromanage people at work.
source: http://liveboldandbloom.com/03/career/control-freakonomics-the-hidden-side-of-controlling-people

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